Ameir Lawrence Reed
(yeah, we changed the spelling to make it as original as our little man)
Born July 16, 2012 at 1:04pm
weighing in at 3 pounds 15 ounces and 17 inches long.
This is his very first picture.
Here is how my little man arrived:
Sunday night July 15, 2012 - Kitchen tile down. One item off my to do list before baby Ameir was born. I admit I probably shouldn't have helped move the cabinets and stuff, but I didn't lift a thing, mostly pushed while Andrew lifted. We finally made it to bed around midnight. Very shortly after I laid down I began having a few contractions so I took a tylenol and moved to my other side and tried to sleep them off. Well, 3am rolls around and I could barely take the pain so I decided to grab a notebook and pen to see how frequently the contractions were coming. There I lay writing down times and after about 40 minutes of contractions I realize they are coming every 3 minutes, so I decided to try a hot shower. It's not working!!! I call my doctor at 4am and he instructs me to come into the hospital. I had packed Ameir's bag weeks ago but hadn't packed mine so here goes grab what you can in case you aren't coming home. Today marked 36 weeks pregnant. I had 8 more days before my scheduled c-section and was lucky to have done the laundry earlier in the week. I tried not to wake Adrianna it has been so hot these past few weeks our electricity bill is going to break us! Adrianna was sleeping in the lounge chair in our bedroom so we only had to run one air conditioner upstairs and as soon as I turned the light on she pops up "what is going on?" I tell her I am coming in to have the baby checked out and have her go back to sleep. I hadn't even woke Andrew up yet so I wake him up to tell him I am just coming in to be checked out and see what is up. I never experienced labor with my daughter so I had no idea if this was real or not so no point in dragging him up to the hospital if it was not for real. I drove myself into the hospital. I get here around 5am and called my mom just to have her on reserve in case I was staying. My doctor was paged and a resident doctor came in to examine me. After about 45 minutes of regular contractions every 2-3 minutes I was checked and I was not dilated so she called my doctor and they were going to send me home after watching Ameir on the monitor for a full 20 minutes (he was moving a lot and we didn't have a full 20 minutes of his heart rate). Well that 20 minutes roll past rather quickly and a nurse comes in and says they are going to start an IV and told me nothing else. The resident OB comes back in to say that my doctor will be up in a little bit because Ameir seemed a little flat on the monitor. During contractions a baby's heart rate is supposed to accelerate and Ameir's was just staying the same around 125. I called my mom to get up here thinking something was not quite right. My mom arrives and shortly after so does my OB. He offered me medication to stop my contractions but said that they would likely continue due to the fact of my fundal height being over 40cm's for so long my body was saying that my baby was "ready" to come out (Ameir was not really ready but my body had no way of recognizing that the measurement was from the extra fluid). I was also offered a c-section at noon today. He explained that the difference of 8 days is not significant enough to aggressively stop labor. I panicked and declined the c-section at the moment. After he leaves the room and I talk it over with my mom I decided that having contractions like this for the next 8 days may do more harm to Ameir's heart and body so I called the nurse to let her know that I would take the c-section this afternoon. I would have never forgave myself if something bad happened to Ameir had I went home. She called my OB back and let him know what I decided. I still got the medication to stop my contractions but it did not work after 2 hours so I am glad I made the decision to go ahead with surgery today.
The NICU team comes down to talk to me and tell me everything that will go on and assure me that they will be in the OR. The CRNA that will be doing my spinal comes in and talks over with me how that all works. 12:30pm my nurse returns and says it is "go time". I get back to the operating room and can't believe how many people were in there. All these people waiting on my little man meant so much to me that they all cared about him as much as I do. We had a few minutes where I thought I was going to pass out when the CRNA was starting my spinal. It seemed to be taking forever to get it going. I NEEDED to be awake no matter what so I sat through the pain of her fishing around in my spine to get the right spot. I kept telling the nurse in front of me that I was too hot and going to pass out. So they started fanning me and I got the feeling I was going to sleep not because of anesthesia but due to passing out. One nurse returns quite quickly with a little white stick and waves it at my nose, I immediately perked up, those "magic sticks" sure do work wonders. It turns out that the needle was too short and she needed one just a hair longer. I can't believe it this is it, the day I have been waiting for, my little man was really going to be here today. My mom comes in and sits at my head and surgery begins. 1:04pm Ameir is born and I don't hear him cry.
I am ok though my CRNA is standing at my head telling me what she can see with Ameir and my mom is not even able to snap a shot because there were so many people from the NICU around him. My CRNA was watching Ameir's heart monitor and his heart was remaining stable and her telling me was reassuring enough. I hear them say bring in the transport isolette and I was told he will be wheeled past me so I can at least look at him. Then the NICU doctor then says he will carry my baby to me so I could see him. Cue the tears. My mom was able to get a few pics of him as they were working on him. Just moments later the doctor showed me my little miracle. Seeing him took my breath away.
Around 5:30pm the doctor from the NICU comes down to talk to me. He said Ameir was not oxygenating his blood very good and his lungs are not fully developed. We knew he was behind in gestational age by about 3 weeks so this was not a huge surprise. His lungs are more like an early 30 week baby rather than a 36 week baby. He explained that he did have one episode where he destatted enough to have to be bagged. He talked about the vent and the amount of oxygen Ameir was requiring and did say they had one more vent available if this vent was not working and if that vent did not work he needed to go the the University of Michigan. All I asked was that my daughter be able to see him. The NICU is under restriction to parents and grandparents only at this time due to RSV outbreak and I was told that she likely may not be able to see him while he is in the NICU. The doctor did say he would see what he could do to arrange her a visit with him.
Andrew and Adrianna arrived and I showed them pictures of our newest addition. Around 7:15pm we got a surprise phone call from the NICU, Dr was going to examine my daughter and if she was well and showing no sign of illness he would let her see Ameir for 5 minutes. I was not able to go up yet so Daddy got to meet his son at the same time Adrianna got to meet her little brother.
9:15pm I finally get to go upstairs. Andrew and I go up to see Ameir together. I get an update on his status and find out that they gave him a little bit of sedation earlier after the episode and he is doing quite well with the vent and they are giving him minimal amounts of extra oxygen to help him breathe and his vent settings are relatively low so he is not considered vent dependent.
July 17, 2012
1 day old
Ameir had a really good night last night. This morning he is on room air and the vent is set at 20. He did have a slight elevation is his CRP so they wanted to get some antibiotics on board to clear out any infection he may have.
This picture is of me "feeding" him. They have me pumping and soaking the colostrum in q-tips to put into his cheeks and on his tongue. He seems to like it, he rubbed his tongue on the q-tip when I put it in his mouth.
Can you imagine my surprise when I go upstairs and see this this afternoon? Yep, that would be my baby barely 24 hours old breathing on his own!!!
I got the official update from the NICU doctor his chest x-ray from today is better than it was yesterday and the ECHO of his heart only shows a PDA. Every baby has this and with a full term baby it closes within hours of birth. Ameir's is starting to close but it has not closed yet, he assured me that this is the case with all preemies and it is not specific to Ameir. He also had an ultrasound of his brain which is completely normal. I LOVE GOOD NEWS!!!
I completed Ameir's birth certificate today. Andrew and I talked last night and decided to spell his name a little different (baby name books show Amir). Ameir Lawrence Reed it is official and on paper. We think it fits him perfectly. My initials before we got married were AME and having his dad's middle and last name he has both a part of me and him in his name.
Here is the crib card the nurses made for him.
Late this afternoon I go back up and visit my little warrior. Ameir is back on the vent. I was crushed but ok with the decision because I don't want him struggling to breathe on his own. He does not like his assessments very much and after watching what it involves I don't either. He lost a couple ounces and today's weight is 3 pounds 11 ounces, his nurse said this is not too bad. I got to take his temperature. His nurse asked if I wanted to change his diaper, I declined because he was he was already upset with the assessment and touching him makes his breathing worse so I let her do it quickly. I had to watch him cry but you don't hear anything because of the vent. Not being able to hold my baby when he cried was the worst feeling in the world and I cried today for the first time. I just put my hand on his head until he stopped crying. I want so much to hold my baby and have done well with not holding him until I had to watch him cry.
I sat with him for over an hour. His vent setting remains pretty low between 20 and 30 so it is just supporting his own breaths. They have had to add a little oxygen at times but mostly when they do his assessments or suction his mouth and throat.
I called to check on him every couple hours through the night and he remains stable. I asked about removing the vent again and was told maybe, but probably not because it was too soon. I would rather the vent remain in so he is not working so hard to breathe and gets to rest. Plus I don't want him to have a sore throat.
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